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Posted: Tue Jul 10, 2007 9:11 am

All my life, I have been shy, and not feeling worthy of being loved. Now, I'm 55, and getting desperate, as if I'll never find the love I need. I've tried online dating, joining groups, but have had no luck at all. I feel all alone in this world, and I'm sick of it. Can you offer any hope for me?

Posted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 4:36 am

"well i dont know how you would take advice from somoene wayyyyyyy younger than you but i'll take a shot............

i cant offer hope, but i can offer you confidence.......55 is well, you already know i dont need too say it anymore, but too say you have no chance is absurd.......i see 80 yr old people find love....just keep trying and keep trying and realize you are worthy of being loved and stop being soo desperate, women aint going too be extint within the next 5 yrs......but u need too get a move on tho, be confident, realize u is someone, and your worth it....."

Posted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 4:37 am

"Everytime I think I won't find love, I look into myself and try to be open to it in the world. I literally imagine a flower blooming and I try to generate an aura of love. I find when I do that some of the most common people look more attractive. Sometimes I will then approach these people and ask them out for a drink. That's how I fell in love with my ex.

Just be open.

But first, make sure you love yourself enough to give love to another person."

Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 6:54 am

Hey
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All the best!!

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